How my life was like.

This answers the seventh and eighth question;

Before the war:

After I retired from the army in 1765,

I moved with my family to Virginia in 1772.

It was an advice from my old friend, George washington.

After the war:

On 1783, my wife Elizabeth died.

I retired and went back to my home in Virginia.

I got to live the lifestyle I longed for after I remarried

a wealthy old lady named Mary Vallance.

I moved to New York on 1790.